Don't be too concerned with what other people think of a certain relationship. Chances are, you couldn't please these critical people if you tried. It is important, however, to look after your own interests, especially when an affair is getting underway and in its early stages. The way you behave now will set the tone for your interactions long into the future. You'd better get your partner used to the idea that you are no pushover. Assert yourself!
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